Teenagers can be challenging. Is not that like saying, "We, the sun can be hot in the Grand Canyon during the summer? The stress of trying to sabotage teens can make your home feel like a long walk, hot through the Grand Canyon, no water and no end in sight.

Here are three suggestions fast to update and maintain for a long time. Remember, your job as parents is to help your teens strong finish. That means you have to be calm, even when they are acting, as well as adolescents. Hormones + = strong wills potential landmine for parents, but need not be so. You can channel sabotage success.

Here is an example of peaceful parents, even when faced with a difficult teenager. While her mother goes into be a good teacher observed, this guy has no interest in school. He is, however, very interested in smoking drugs and hanging out with friends at parties.

He was arrested once, twice and is now preparing for sentencing. Mom is melting under the stress of mounting every time they interact. She feel desperate for a resolution and plan – Either that, or a trip to the pharmacy before it is lost completely.

Here are three strategies that apply and you can too!

1. Separate immediately. This simple action can bring immediate relief. But what does it mean? Your child is not you. Nor their actions. I know it's tough to swallow. When your child is sabotaging themselves may feel a great deal of shame, especially if you have a high profile in your community. But teenagers make mistakes and must be given the privilege of learning life the hard way if they wish. If you can remember that your child is not you, you can be free of this shame.

2. Get support. This mother took control and eradication of feelings of victimization that is experiencing. This in itself brought peace to his great and together we prayed for a supernatural breakthrough and strategic plan for your child.

3. Make a plan. We have worked together to build a plan that would introduce his son, giving him the opportunity to come into alignment with their rules or leave the house. He chose the former and also decided to get full-time work, who had prayed for and go to school and take some classes. She almost fell off his chair when he came to this decision himself.

Since we met, his lawyer has informed the mother that the judge will most likely give their child from probation by the fact that he is being proactive about to training and school. Mom is thrilled with the ownership of your child is taking and with their new strength and identity, which makes them feel in control and confidence their parents.

I see results like this again and again, when combined with practical strategies passionate prayer. If you apply this consistently, you can experience progress!

If you are experiencing stress sabotage a teen, here are three questions for you:

1. It is my identity mesh with my adolescence, I have to separate sabotage or more?
2. How could it be action, and prayer coupled with practical strategies to get the support you need?
3. My husband and I are on the same page with the plan we are presenting our teenagers?

Try these and see their family ranging from sabotage to success!

Becky Harmon, B.S in Criminology., CTA, CLC has been married to her husband Jay for over 20 years, is a mother of 4 and has homeschooled for over 12 years. She is a prayer leader, founding member of Toastmasters at Kennesaw State University, was a top performer in sales two years in a row, and is a member of the Georgia Coaches Association.

As the founder of Success Not Sabotage Coaching, Becky has a passion for helping parents and teens break out of cycles of self-sabotage so they can build intergenerational success. Becky’s coaching has been highlighted in Root and Sprout and The Atlanta Journal Constitution.She understands what is means to fight depression, addictions and hopelessness, feeling desperate for breakthrough. She has lived this as a young person and later as a parent watching her own children struggle through their own challenges. She loves equipping and empowering teens and adults to identify what is delaying them and into living big by using small simple strategies. Becky has also overcome many financial obstacles and now enjoys transtioning her clients out of financial turmoil and into abundance and security. She has lived this as a young person loves equipping and empowering teens and adults to identify what is delaying them and into living big by using small strategies!

She has a unique brand of coaching, combing it with passionate prayer and consistent cardio work that gets results quickly and enables you to sustain it long-term. She has a passion for young people and this simple purpose and message for parents: Quit waiting and take action! When Becky is not coaching or spending time with her family, she enjoys horseback riding and learning new things! She can be contacted at http://www.successnotsabotage.com.

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